Be the movie
How you spend your time is how you live your life. Cliche. I know But how many people you know are constantly on Instagram or Facebook or Netflix, watching other people's lived lives or watching some fantasy/romance on the screen? When you could create your own adventure. Start by thinking how you want your life to be if it were a movie Who's the hero/ heroine in it? Who's the villain? Is it possible that the villain turns out to actually be the good guy? What did the main character have to go through to make it today? What obstacles did she have to jump over, crawl through or get the help of someone? Who's her mentor? What different endings can you put in the story? you know the ones in books where you used to flip through as a kid, "Go to page 14 if you choose to see Anna fight the dragons in the dungeon..." Or "Go to page 58 when you and your friends decide to explore the unlocked door hidden behind the huge painting hanging in the basement......